I haven't written any new posts here in a while because I get angry when I think of my narcissistic ex, and I don't like being angry. But here I am again, and I hope to write something that rings familiar.
The title of this post 'Get Out Early...And Stay Out!!' is the best advice I can give anyone in a relationship with a narcissist. Unfortunately, I didn't do that. I got out but then went back in 18 months later at his urging. His sales pitch was that he re-evaluated his life and wanted to make changes. I didn't completely believe him but I gave him the benefit of the doubt and told him I would re-enter the relationship 'cautiously optimistic'. Well, the only thing he changed was his address.
Narcissists must have their way all the time, the only way they can accomplish that is by lying. That's what he did to get me back in. Beware of lies. It's what they do. Also beware of the superior attitude, they will try to crush you with it. Actually, it's quite laughable and contradictory. The core of narcissism is INSECURITY not superiority.
Here is a list of 5 traits of a narcissist. If you see these traits, you might want to get out and stay out.
Tomorrow's post will be Narcissists and Misogyny.
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